But at What Cost?

Sol Reflection

I enrolled two new clients into my 3-month 1:1 Fashion Therapy Program last week, one in Greenville, SC and one in NYC. Both clients asked for something very specific: “I neeeed quality clothes.” One babe got a promotion (woohoo!) and is ready to step into her new position in style. The other recently pivoted in … Read More

You Have to Test Drive It!

Sol Reflection

YIKES! You know that feeling when you think your outfit’s gunna be great, but you arrive to your destination feeling TERRIBLE?! Here’s some reasons why your outfit flopped: You last minute realize you don’t have shoes to match It’s too tight after lunch (more on this another time) It sags & bags before you even … Read More

Set an Intention NOT a Resolution

Sol Reflection

What would it look like, or better yet feel like if you set a personal style New Year intention rather than a resolution? An intention could be as simple as “I want to enjoy getting dressed this year.” It’s relaxed and it’s fluid.  So then what’s the difference? The dictionary definition of resolution is “a … Read More

I Wish I Could Have You Forever

Sol Reflection

“I Wish I Could Have You Forever.” A client said this to me last week as we are approaching the halfway mark of her 3-month 1:1 Fashion Therapy program. Whoa, I thought. What a compliment. The good news is, she CAN have me forever! Well, as long as we both value having a personal style … Read More

I Have No Style Anymore

Sol Reflection

Well, it’s only partially true that I no longer have a style. I’m writing to you from my sick bed (I’m like a level 10 Housewives of NJ drama right now). But really, this has been a shit week. We have the flu. My dear Mother-in-Law passed away last week after a 25 year health … Read More

Aging in Style

Sol Reflection

Listening to Glennon Doyle’s We Can Do Hard Things with Ashton Applewhite, I was struck by her comment about why the best is yet to come – “We grow more different from each other as we age.” She was talking about our unique differences. Our shapes, lines and colors and what a gift it is … Read More

Clothes Are Just Fabric

Sol Reflection

A friend of mine shared a quote from content creator, Dominique Gabriel, who said “Clothes do not have a gender. They are not male or female. They’re just fabric.” PHEW, FINALLY people are talking about this. I’m ready to throw out the boxes telling us what to wear and not wear and when we’re “allowed” … Read More

Want to Hang Out in the New Year!? 🎉

Sol Reflection

I am excited to share that I am working with NINE amazing women from all over the world on upcoming branding photoshoots through Jordan Duvall’s Magnetic Brand Program 📸. This program happens a few times a year and we’re getting ready to begin working with our THIRD cohort of 2022. I’m also honored to say … Read More

Are You Getting Support?

Sol Reflection

I was recently featured in ADORAtherapy’s “People We Adore” blog. I LOVE this company and the woman who started it. I recommend you check them out and get some fall goodies. I’m telling you this not only so you’ll read the article to get to know me better or so that you’ll support ADORAtherapy’s founder … Read More

Do You Think You’re a 10?

Sol Reflection

I posted a video chalk full of images from a photoshoot I did in Chicago with photographer Rose Kaz. The video used the words “are you valuing yourself at a 10?” I want to clarify that our value is NOT based on a number, social ranking or cost of our clothes. It’s simply not numerical. … Read More