You Have Two Options

Sol Reflection

Too many people fear their bodies.  The word “FEAR” can be an acronym for either:   Face. Everything. And. Recover or F*&%. Everything. And. Run Your responses to why people unsubscribed during my summer bathing suit deal was overwhelmingly: The thought of finding, or worse, wearing a bathing suit causes such deep distress that some … Read More

How Am I Doing?

Sol Reflection

Recently I turned 40 (more about my slip n’ slide party next time ????????????) and I’ve been taking an inventory of my life & business this year. Before I share a few highlights from each category, I have a birthday favor to ask. Will you tell me how I’m doing? I’m not taking anything personally, … Read More

PLEASE DON’T BUY THIS!!

Sol Reflection

If you fall into one of the below categories, don’t worry, I have something at the end of this email that will help immensely. That said, please please please do not buy the following bathing suits for the following reasons:  Black solely because you think it’s slimming. A one-piece because you or someone else doesn’t … Read More

The Only Thing That Could Make This Day Worse

Sol Reflection

Psst…I dropped something special for you at the end of this blog (hot tip: read till the end)   “The only thing that could make this day worse is if I had to go try on bathing suits.” – Stacey M., Photoshoot + Seasonal Wardrobe Client Have you ever thought that? I have.  Now, imagine this: … Read More

You Are NOT Alone

Sol Reflection

“I am here with youuuuu. Though we’re far apart, you’re always in my hearttttt.” Michael Jackson – one of his more melodramatic songs (I love me some artsy drama)    But that’s really what I came to say. That I’m here.  I’m here for your questions, style concerns, and celebrations. I’m here for all the … Read More

How to Pack for Vacation

Sol Reflection

Travel packing can be overwhelming, so let me get to it.  If these tips don’t eliminate your stress, hire me to pack for you.  PACKING TIPS:  Know where you’re going and think about how you want to want to feel while there. Be inspired by the culture of the location, national or international.  At least … Read More

I Can’t Quit This Color

Sol Reflection

I can’t quit bright pink, but I don’t know if I want to.  I love PINK and it represents my fun, bubbly personality. It reminds me of art school with dyed hair and being called cute and spritely. I mean….that high school photo ?. I’m turning 40 this year.  There’s a settling and wisdom rolling … Read More

It’s Not All About You

Sol Reflection

My client invested in herself through her work with me, but she’s not the only one benefiting.    If you believe life would be richer when anyone who had something great to share felt confident enough in their skin to share it, find a personal style that truly reflects who you are. Because when you look … Read More

That Photo of You Sucks

Sol Reflection

Why would I say that to you??  Turns out, I didn’t. YOU said it to you. And you do it alot.  You seee a photo and pick yourself apart, limb by limb.  This is objectification – something I know you don’t want to be accused of.  It’s also a load of crap.  Whether you like … Read More

You Need to Hear This

Sol Reflection

Y’all loved the Marianne Williamson quote in my last newsletter (it’s copied again at the bottom), and here’s another one I’ve got lots of feelings about.  “Humility is all well and good until it gets in the way of our generosity. You are the Light of the world. Go forth, enjoy, and let your light … Read More