I Couldn’t Help It ☺️

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YOU GOT TO LOVE YOURSELF! I told you couldn’t help it 😘. First, I want to clarify something. Self-love is an overused term that includes shit that’s goofy, unsustainable, and full of privilege.  Then what does it look like to find love for yourself?  It’s an intimate process that you’ve got to do alone. You … Read More

What Are Your 3 Words?

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In order to help my clients define and refine their personal styles, I ask them for 3 words to describe themselves. Below are answers I’ve received over the years: Bold, Sensible, Leader Creative, Authentic, Funky Saucy, Empathetic, Powerful Ambitious, Snarky, Nerdy Loyal, Scattered, Loving Anxious, Unsure, Overwhelmed Original, Cheerful Wisdom, Sincere Why do these 3 … Read More

“The Dreaded Chair”

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You know the one. The one that holds yesterday and the day-before (and the day-before’s) clothes. The clothes that are too dirty for the closet, but too clean for the laundry. That’s “The Dreaded Chair.” The clothes on “The Dreaded Chair” are an eye sore, but they often feel easy to pick. The problem is, … Read More

I have to keep going

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I have to do it. I have to keep bragging on my clients. OMG, Debra Heim. Debra is a former Registered Nurse turned Alternative Hair Consultant. She opened her Wig Boutique after a long quest to find quality alternative hair in a time of deep personal need. She doesn’t believe in ill-fitting, overpriced generic wigs and helps her clients … Read More

Yvette Said it Best <3

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I’m beyond honored to work with babes around the U.S. and internationally. Beautiful babes like Yvette here. Whether it’s 1:1 styling offering a complete wardrobe overhaul, including personal shopping, or styling for significant events like Branding & Marketing Photoshoots or Ted Talks, I receive feedback like Yvette’s almost every time. And she said it best. … Read More

My Three Favorite Things

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I love Clothing Swaps and here’s why:  COMMUNITY – We need it now more than ever ENVIRONMENTAL HEALTH – yay sustainable fashion BREAKING HABITS – this is a low-risk opportunity to try clothes you haven’t been willing to spend money on. Get ‘em. Try ‘em out. Fall in love with new styles! On that note, … Read More

Dance Like You’re Naked

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Ok, forget the naked part. That was just to get you to read my blog 😃. I went dancing with a friend a few weeks ago. I was OBSESSED with the outfits! It was the most unapologetically dressed crew I’ve seen in a while. Even though the party had a theme – “80’s & 90’s” … Read More

I Couldn’t Help It!

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It’s February 14th. YOU GOTTTTT TO LOVE YOURSELF! I told you I couldn’t help it 😘. But to clarify – self-love is an overused term that includes shit that’s goofy, unsustainable and full of privilege. So what does it look like to really find love for yourself? It’s a private, intimate process and you gotta … Read More

But at What Cost?

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I enrolled two new clients into my 3-month 1:1 Fashion Therapy Program last week, one in Greenville, SC and one in NYC. Both clients asked for something very specific: “I neeeed quality clothes.” One babe got a promotion (woohoo!) and is ready to step into her new position in style. The other recently pivoted in … Read More

You Have to Test Drive It!

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YIKES! You know that feeling when you think your outfit’s gunna be great, but you arrive to your destination feeling TERRIBLE?! Here’s some reasons why your outfit flopped: You last minute realize you don’t have shoes to match It’s too tight after lunch (more on this another time) It sags & bags before you even … Read More