Totally Disappointed

Sol Reflection

At the risk of sounding out of touch, I need to air my grievances for a minute. I’m not sure everyone would consider being a first time mama during a pandemic “good,” but I don’t know anything else, and what I DO know is that I have many blessings in my life. That said, here’s … Read More

What is Fashion Therapy

Sol Reflection

For those new to my blog here’s a little more about my work as The Fashion Therapist in both written and in video form! I’m a Personal Stylist and Psychotherapist. I married my expertise in fashion and personal identity with my 15-year-long career working and teaching in the field of trauma healing. I engage you … Read More

How NOT to set a NY’s Style Intention

Sol Reflection

So, did you set an intention for your style this year? Because I recommend it, but I also don’t. Here’s what I mean. I DON’T recommend intentions like, “I’m going to lose 50lbs and then start wearing the clothes I want to wear,” or “I’m not going to wear ANY black for all of 2022.” … Read More

OH MY GOODNESS!

Sol Reflection

I am beaming with gratitude for each and every one of you. As you showed up in support of yourselves and your personal style, you in turn, supported me and my business. Because of your support, my passions for inspiring you and styling you are that much more ignited! And of course, you are also … Read More

The Answer to Your Big Question

Sol Reflection

A while back I received a great question from you all and I made a video to answer it! The question was: “I’ve got a ton of clothes, but I wear the same thing every day. Any suggestions??” Check out my video below ?? for a simple step-by-step process to incorporate pieces from your wardrobe … Read More

The Gift of Style

Sol Reflection

Gift giving can be tricky. Finding the perfect hat or scarf, knowing exactly what someone wants or needs and even getting to the store can be time-sucking and crazy-making. But giving the gift of style – now that’s a perfect idea!* This week only, a 75-minute style consultation that includes access to a Virtual Closet … Read More

YOU ABSOLUTELY HAVE TO READ THIS

Sol Reflection

Y’alllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll. Our society is OBSESSED with unattainable beauty standards. And because of filters, edits and angles, we’ve convinced ourselves there’re a million people walking around casually meeting these standards, while the rest of us struggle to put together an outfit we even moderately like. I get it, we’re feeling defeated and left out.   But you … Read More

Were You Called One of These Names?

Sol Reflection

What if instead of being: BOSSY: Maybe you were meant to lead. WEIRD: Maybe you’re an artist. UGLY: Maybe your brand of beauty is intimidating to others. FAT: (I hate that this is even considered an insult – STOP WITH THAT) Maybe you’re actually human-sized, like the way God intended you to be. Like even … Read More

What to Do When There’s Nothing to Wear

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We all get burnt out. We get tired and overwhelmed and overworked and that makes accessing our creativity DIFFICULT. And a lot of what it takes to get dressed is getting creative with the clothes in our closets.  So then what do we do?? Wait for it….it’s a good one.  Some of you as you’re … Read More

What Would it Be Like to Own the PERFECT Outfit?

Sol Reflection

I like to play a game where I ask my clients & social media followers the below question and then I find them an answer to the question! “If you could imagine, buy or create your perfect piece of clothing, what would it be!?” People reply with some amazing requests. Sometimes it’s an easy find … Read More