I’m F.I.N.E.

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Chloe Jimenez Peters: Client I styled in Majorca, Spain Have you heard the acronym, “F.I.N.E.?” It stands for F*&%ed up, Insecure, Needy, & Emotional 😅. How often do you say the words, “I’m fine,” knowing that you’re really “just okay?”  And then how often do you feel like your outfit is “just fine?” – and … Read More

What is Rizz???

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The other day a client told me I had “Rizz.” Ok, that sounds cool, but what the heck is “Rizz??” She said it’s cool-kid-short-hand for “Charisma.” I’LL TAKE IT! I like to look up definitions in the dictionary because it illuminates something deeper about a word. Cha·ris·ma /kəˈrizmə/ noun 1. compelling attractiveness or charm that … Read More

What’s More Important?

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The first thing clients tell me is that they want to look and feel like themselves. They’re worried styling means telling them what to wear, leaving them feeling like someone they’re not. WELL, Y’ALL ARE IN LUCK because my job is to align your style to your soul. Personality first; style second. When you get … Read More

What’s Your Closet Missing?

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Do you have the feeling your closet is missing something but you don’t know what? I hear this all the time. It’s confusing. Seeing your closet day in and out fogs your lens of what to ditch, what to keep, and where the gaps are.   My client Katie talks about how this changed with … Read More

It’s in Your Closet!

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A couple of days after a big shopping trip with me, a client Marco Polo’d (a tool I use to stay regularly connected with my 1:1 clients) to tell me she chose a “bottom of the barrel” dress to wear that morning. She showed me an old dress that fit just okay and felt like … Read More

I DON’T WANT TO LOOK CUTE

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Last week a client said to me: “I don’t want to look cute, I want to feel cute.” I COULD NOT HAVE SAID IT BETTER MYSELF. How we look is major, but how we feel in what we wear is the most important part of getting dressed. Focusing on how we feel vs. how we … Read More

What Water and Style Have in Common 💦

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What we wear impacts how we feel. That means what we wear becomes a part of us.  I’m sure you know this, but our bodies are primarily made up of water (overall, it’s between 50-70%, and our brains are 95%!).  Water is deeply influenced by its surroundings. If you’ve not heard of Dr. Masaru Emoto’s … Read More

Are You Free to Be?

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When people tell me they feel stuck and hate everything in their closet, I ask them to tell me how they want to FEEL in what they wear. Imagining what it would feel like to enjoy getting dressed can inform what you buy, what you wear, and how you wear it. Stuckness means you aren’t … Read More

Wear it Like it’s Your Birthday! 🥳

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If you hate birthdays, sub in another holiday or just trash this message. 😆 Last week I got to travel with Adam KID FREE FOR 5 DAYS to Portland & a wedding in Eugene. OMG it was divine. But this email isn’t about my 5-day-long date with my husband, it’s about what we wore. I … Read More

I Couldn’t Help It ☺️

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YOU GOT TO LOVE YOURSELF! I told you couldn’t help it 😘. First, I want to clarify something. Self-love is an overused term that includes shit that’s goofy, unsustainable, and full of privilege.  Then what does it look like to find love for yourself?  It’s an intimate process that you’ve got to do alone. You … Read More