What happens when you step out into the world fully dressed as your most authentic self? For one incredible client, it was more than just fashion—it was about visibility, connection, and joy.
She never felt great getting dressed. The size and shape of her body felt like it limited her options. She also believed that spending time and money on her style could be seen as privileged and a waste of time and resources.
Keeping this in mind, I sent her a carefully curated selection of quality clothing—pieces that would last, fit beautifully, and that felt like her! Where she once hesitated over purchases, she trusted my thoughtful guidance and invested in pieces that felt right.
Then she went out to dinner.
The number of strangers who commented on her outfit was overwhelming. “Oh my gosh, that’s the best thing I’ve seen all day!” “You look amazing!” “Your outfit brings me so much joy!” These weren’t surface-level comments—they were connections.
THIS IS THE POINT: human-to-human connection.
The value of that connection is greater than the cost of the clothing. When someone’s life is bettered because of your presence, it’s a reminder that visibility isn’t about being seen for the sake of it—it’s about the right kind of visibility. The kind that enhances, inspires, and lifts others up.
Privilege is real—who gets to buy what, who has access, and what it means to spend money on ourselves. But what if we thought of style as more than just consumerism and considered its impact on how we truly show up in the world? Plus, clothes can come from anywhere. You’d be amazed at how many pieces in my closet have come from other people!
I cannot begin to explain what it’s like to see her now–other than to say she boldly embraces her personal style and is bursting with joy about it! She tells me it’s been life-changing and that she is liberated.
And with that, the ripple effect is undeniable when we show up in a way that feels true.
If you’re ready for a wardrobe that aligns with the most authentic expression of your identity, schedule a call with me here 👇🏼